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Vinny01 · 10-12-2011, 03:29 PM

I am 28 and have been in a relationship for 2.5 years. I recently finished doing 8 months of long distance Calgary-Edmonton (sept,10-apr,11). We have been living together for the past 6 months and I am finding things are getting tough. We have friends getting engaged and married and my girlfriend is dropping hints about wanting to get married and planning things 5-10 years down the road.

I am kind of freaking out and miss the single life from time to time. I like my own time and miss the chase. I wanted to be 100% convinced this is the girl for me, and I used to think that when we were doing the long distance. The last thing I wanted was to lose her. Now that we live together I am probably the furthest away from wanting to get married to her than I have been in over a year.

Part of me worries that I have a grass is greener mentality right now and I will regret things if I were to become single, and I also don't want to be going back into the game in my late 20's/early 30's.

10-12-2011, 03:29 PM	#110
Vinny01 Franchise Player Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: CGY Exp:	I am 28 and have been in a relationship for 2.5 years. I recently finished doing 8 months of long distance Calgary-Edmonton (sept,10-apr,11). We have been living together for the past 6 months and I am finding things are getting tough. We have friends getting engaged and married and my girlfriend is dropping hints about wanting to get married and planning things 5-10 years down the road. I am kind of freaking out and miss the single life from time to time. I like my own time and miss the chase. I wanted to be 100% convinced this is the girl for me, and I used to think that when we were doing the long distance. The last thing I wanted was to lose her. Now that we live together I am probably the furthest away from wanting to get married to her than I have been in over a year. Part of me worries that I have a grass is greener mentality right now and I will regret things if I were to become single, and I also don't want to be going back into the game in my late 20's/early 30's.