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Originally Posted by Zethrynn
So you think that to people who are miserable are gonna be good parents?
You don't think the kids are not going to pick up there parents hate each other? I don't think that would be any better.
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Depends on the parents, to be frank most marriages go through lousy patches, often when kids arrive, sometimes you just find meaning in life elsewhere.
If two people are at each others throats it isn't a good idea but if they can agree to keep it together for the kids and treat each other with respect its workable and better for the kids, I am about to leave for thanksgiving with friends who have a completly loveless marriage and are only together as their son has MD, once he dies they will seperate, they don't hate each other though, they havn't loved each other in a decade, and I know he uses hookers occasionally, their kid will die in a few years though so they hold it together and he comes over and sobs on my shoulder occasionally when we crack the single malt.