After university, paid off all my debt after working 1.5 years, took 6 months off work to travel and find out what else is out there in the world. Met my wife over-seas (not China, not that there is anything wrong with that) and got married after 2 years of long distance relationship at ripe age of 26. Did I expect that? Nope. Things happened when I wasn't expecting and let the things roll. I had no plan to get married at 26 or finding someone over-seas. Had 2 kids by 31 and have been married for 14 years now.
From seeing my friends single in their 30's and trouble finding the "right" person, I can see how OP can be stressed. Even when I was in my 20's, most decent girls where either: "pre-med" or "pre-dental" or "pre-wed"(ie. engaged). Glad to have had kids when we were younger....they will leave the nest sooner, too.
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