I've never understood wanting to get married by a certain age, or just saying you'd like to get married in some general sense without any clue of who that person would be. To me it would be like asking someone if they'd like to trade in their car for a different one... how do you answer that without knowing what kind of car you'd be trading in for? What if it's a crappy, rusted, POS that's never going to run?
It seems like some people concentrate more than they should on things that get associated with marriage like kids, settling down, etc. even though these things actually have nothing to do with marriage, at least IMO. Really the only thing that matters at all with marriage is the person you're marrying.
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