Oh look. Option84 is back with a new question...
Well, my answer is that perhaps you need to stop worrying about women being gold diggers and work a bit harder. Women aren't gold diggers, they are just more attracted to men who have proven that they can provide. You don't need to have a hundred grand in the bank to land a nice girl, you just need to be capable of eventually having a bank account.
And when you really think about it, why is it a big deal if girls want that? Us guys can automatically qualify or disqualify a girl without even seeing her head, let alone talking to her, so if a girl wants a certain quality in a guy, I don't think it's unreasonable.
Maybe your perception of women being gold diggers is more a reflection of your lack of earning potential, or maybe your hang up on your own money. If you have a lot of money and you're worried that girls only like you because of your bank account, just remind yourself that if she was a big fat fatty, you wouldn't be banging her either, so you're even.
And if it's because you're broke, well, stop smoking pot and posting on CP and go get your ass to work, and maybe a nice girl will want to come home with you.
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