Hi I ask this because usually when someone is in their 30's, theyre in the process of getting married and having kids, starting a family (if not already). Im almost 31 and have been single for 2.5 years now (I wont get into that right now, but im finding it very difficult to meet a nice woman in this city, for example, one whos not a gold digger).
When you're in your 20s, ok...youre still young and thats the time when you focus on school and career and play and test the waters. But to me when youre in your 30s youre in a different scenario, cause I dont want to be getting married and having kids when Im in my 40's.
So for any of you in your 30s and still single, but want a family eventually, do you find it more stressful now being in your 30s than say 20s? How do you keep patient and hopeful? Do you have family harassing you asking when youre going to get married? lol
And before someone says "youre still young, you have lotssss of time"....unfortunately I dont see it that way, cause getting married is a long process, it takes many years to get to know someone on a marriage comfort level. And when youre single it just eats up valuable time. But Im just not the type who will propose to a girl 3 weeks after meeting lol. When I was in college my goal was to get married by 30.
