I am sorry to hear that but people make choices in life. What if your uncle died from a crazy wake boarding accident? You loved him obviously, love his life choices and accept the fact that we are all going to die regardless if we smoke or not. I have (had hopefully) cancer and it has nothing to do with bad life choices.
Relax, tolerate smoking, drinking red wine and eating pizza. Life is precious and no matter your great intentions people have different life goals but we really don't need to fret over others habits if they don't derail your life mission.
May I suggest "tolerating" a smoker or two in your life and live a simpler life free from judgement?
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