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There are other ways to be still active with your sons Hockey. My step dad used to love helping out but he knew his limits so he worked the bench door. I loved having him on the bench but also loved that fact that he didn't try to offer his opinion just being a casual fan of the game.

I don't mean to say this in a rude way but is there maybe a possibility that your son feels that don't know as much as you think you do? I hated it when others tried to offer advice on my skating or shooting when they couldn't even skate themselves. It could be completely opposite though too. Maybe you have to much knowledge and expectations that maybe he feels inferior or wants to live up to his old man's expectations.

I don't think removing yourself from the game is the right choice though, it sounds like Hockey is something that could strengthen your bond if handled correctly. There are so many disconnects with youth and parents in todays society.