Do you not get many dates Dess?
On a first date I would think it's important to make as good an impression as possible. I understand the thing about spoiled women, I also get the thing with wanting to make it fair as you get to know each other more. But on the first date, I wanna look like a hero! And often throughout the relationship as well. Nothing feels better than being able to spoil your girl some. As long as she's appreciative of course (and no I don't mean that in a wink wink way, it's not a means to an end, though it often works anyway).
I think the problem you're having is not feeling like your efforts or sacrifices are appreciated. That probably has more to do with how you present yourself and self esteem. You can be generous without being a doormat.
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