It sounds to me that the guy in the elevator was more proactive with his feelings of arousal than the lady was with her feelings of fear. He dealt with his feelings.
This lady seems to think others need to deal with her feelings of fear by changing their behaviour. I think she needs to accept that men do have and express feelings of sexual desire. If men avoid crude expressions of these desires when communicating there feelings to women it is acceptable behaviour.
If she doesn't feel comfortable around men at certain times or in certain circumstances she should avoid putting herself in those situations.
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