Re: Photon,
She feels like she was objectified or sexualized. Now, I've obviously stated my opinion on why even if that was the case, it may not be as horrible or morally wrong as she believes it was, but it is a common viewpoint among some women.
Secondly, and perhaps more importantly, she alludes that a proposition like that within the confines of the situation (IE late at night, strange city, alone in an enclosed space) made her feel scared. I'm not sure how much of this is true and how much is to make her point, but it can be very hard for us guys to understand the fear a woman can have in situations like this.
Still, I'm not exactly sure how you could get around this. Even if the guy said nothing, perhaps an attitude like hers would still cause her to be afraid? In which case, that's more telling about her than his actions are to him.
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