My thought is once your married you and your spouse always have to take each others side. If my wife disagrees with my sister I always take the wives side. Details don't matter. Anything else and you are asking for problems long term. Her family is full of manipulators and it sounds like it works on her. If you can live with it fine. But don't assume it will just go away.
Lots of inlaws are messed up, what matters is how the gf deals with it.
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