you and your g/f need to sit down and have a heart to heart. Let it ALL out. No amount of talking on a message board will help you, it is up to you and your g/f to work it out. IF your g/f cannot find away to support you, and you her, then there is no relationship. You will hang on for awhile but eventually you will simply be bitter and leave....or she will.
Family is not chosen...both of you need to find a way to exist with her family and yours. If that's not possible in Vancouver, and you both love and support each other....move.
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