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Originally Posted by Calgaryborn
You gave only excuses for the irresponsibility many gay men show towards their own bodies and that of their dates. None of your excuses takes away the basic fact that they are responsible for their actions. If a gay man has unprotected sex he is just as responsible for his actions and outcome as another man who choses to drink and drive.
Being a responsible adult should be fair requirement of any potentual parent.
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What about heterosexual guys who slip drugs into the drinks of women with the sole intent to have unprotected and unconsenual sex with them? Or people who go to clubs/bars with the sole intent of picking up someone of the opposite sex at random to have straight sex with them and might not even bother getting a first name nevermind asking if they are disease free? Is that being less irresponsible then a homosexual who chooses to have unprotected, consenual sex with their partner that they know the sexual and medical history of?
If being a responsible adult is a requirement of a potential parent I think its safe to say many parents would not be fit that requirement. How many women are having "straight sex" with multiple partners and turning their vagina into a clown car with numerous baby daddies that they can't even pinpoint who fathered what. How is this person going to be a better parent then a homosexual couple that's exclusive and can raise their child in a stable environment where you have two loving and constant parents?
It's not like you are inviting the child into the bedroom to watch you have sex so I fail to see why it matters how you have sex as to whether you are a suitable parent. If you can meet all the other requirements of adoption and prove yourself to be a fit parent, your sexual orientation should not even come into play.