Didn't want to start a new thread, figured it'd be better to bump this one.
Without too many details, my wife and I split last night. I've read through this thread a number of times and there's some great advice, just looking for a few pointers.
Can anybody shed some light on completing this ugly process without going through divorce lawyers/litigation? Not too interested in the scorched earth approach.
I'd prefer to go the route of collaboration/mediation. As for now we've got an idea on how to split the assets. I'm just wondering the best way to get an agreement in place to prevent things deviating from that in the future. It's fairly uncomplicated, no kids, both of us work. The only kink may be the year old house.
Also, if anybody has any info on getting some legal clarification it would be appreciated. We're looking at being separated while living in separate rooms in the same house for now, but I'm having trouble finding much clarification on how that's accomplished.
I'm trying to keep specifics out of the thread. Anything other than general info PMs would be great.
Before any comedians get in the act:
Q: Don't you have anybody offline you can talk to this about?
-No. Part of the agreement is she gets all the friends.
Q: Sweet! Can I get her digits?
- No, but here's her facebook page:
http://tinyurl.com/y8ufsnp
Thanks to the CP collective.