[Tiger]

Thanks for the advice everyone.

The problem with the aunt is she prepared the house for selling by staging it. the clean out of the house etc was done by my family, the taking care of the house and my grandpa before the death was done by my mom and dad. Every single thing, and my Aunts wanted only to put him in a home and my grandpa's dying wish was to never be in a home. So my parents did all the work and all the aunts did was try to push the issue with legal action to get him placed in a home. They lost because his will stated his wishes to remain at home and would go with home care instead of an institution. Even on his last weeks when we would have people over there 24 hours a day, my family did 5 days a week and the other two aunts did 2 days. on those days they would leave him unattended for hours and went shopping or out for meals so no one was there to take care of him. All the while they were ripping into my mom for not doing anything for the family to every family member, ever friend they possibly could.

Now this one aunt that has lied to me about the PVR purposefully delayed putting the house on the market for six months so she would have somewhere to live (because she has no job and no home because she went from being CFO's of companies to being the spiritual type that still only talks about herself). Now after the house has sold she convinced my Grandma to pay her mortgage and give her back the rate she would have made investing it in the bank (roughly 1%) so she is really now ripping off my Grandma too, and she is in charge of her estate as well (I think along with my dad, but my aunts were trying to convince my grandma to take him off and don't know if they succeeded, but my dad would prefer to be off it because he doesn't care for them anymore).

Plus my aunts also wanted the will changed so the estate is split three ways, not four. My one aunt died in 2001 and they don't want that share going to her kids instead they want a bigger share to themselves that they don't care about my cousins that lost there mom. At the very least they wanted the dead aunts share to be split between all grandkids. When my Grandma asked us what we thought my sister put it best "I'd rather have a mom than your money"

So you see there is no reason for me to be nice to this person, I don't really ever want to talk to that side of the family again. I already have a PVR I just don't want her to get away with lying to get her way again.

Thanks for the advice, I think it is sad that death brings out the worst in people. I will probably ignore her based on the masses