Bruce,
Personally, I make no judgement about the the fact that X makes them uncomfortable (X can be gay sex, brussel sprouts, Edmonton or the tele-tubbies).
However, I do think that it is important to consider how people react to things that make them uncomfortable. If I avoid an amazing experience, because it has a little X in it, I'm poorer for it, but it doesn't really affect anyone but myself.
When I start disrespecting others b/c they like X or don't like X, that is different.
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CuteHelga