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Originally Posted by REDVAN
My answer is try to date them both without them finding out about it. It takes a little bit of skill and cunning, but you're a grown man so do it.
I say this because I am currently in the same situation- trying to decide if "working on things" with my ex is worth it, or should I just forget about her and cut my losses.
My friends have told me: make sure you are getting something out of seeing her. Whether it be sex, emotional fulfilment, money, etc. Just make sure it's not harming you or bringing you down. Right now, for me, it's bring me down. I want things to work out with her, but I have my back up plans in full effect.
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This is probably why it didn't work out in the first place. If you need a 'back-up plan' in case things don't work out, you don't love her. You've already mentally left her so why are you doing this to her and yourself?