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Originally Posted by FlamingInfinity
Just wanted to hear CP's two cents on my situation.
I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years in October. Things were what I thought, one sided on her end. Lots of take, little give from my POV. I needed time away to find me again.
Fast forward to middle of December, talking a bit with the ex, and slowly working on things. She discovers that I was talking with this girl from back home in Alberta.
Now I'm playing the field a bit and 'the ex' thinks I can't work on things with her while also seeing other women. I can see her point to an extent, but I also believe that unless I clarify to her, that her and I are dating, that there is no real 'together' and I can see women freely.
Basically I'm asking whether it's one person at one time, or looking at your options with however many people you'd like?
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She sounds like a insecure control nut, even though you're not getting any benefits from her and you're not in a relationship with her she wants to control you.
Tell her to hit the bricks and find another patsy. Do what you want to do.
If you're not in a relationship with her, and you're "Working on things" she has no right to lay down terms.
I guess as an add on question for clarification, are you getting any benefits of this working on thing, is she giving you the sunday night movie hummer, wearing her best lingerie when you pound her? If not, then you're working on nothing, your negotiating a surrender. I shall now call you France from now on.