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Originally Posted by Rathji
At first this morning, I was thinking no way you should try and get back with her.
Then I thought about it some more and really what can it hurt? Since there are no kids involved to hurt or mess up, then if you both think it is a good idea then what do you lose?
A year or 2 where you are getting regular sex (because it is not like you are married) and you might be able to work things out because
a) you are older and more experienced and
b) you and/or her might realize that the biggest problem people have in relationships is (in my eyes) getting defensive when they have done something wrong, or not being able to admit when they have done something wrong. Tip: If you and your eventual partner don't realize this at some point, it will always be rocky, regardless of who it is.
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What if you didn't do something wrong?