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Originally Posted by BBQorMILDEW
I know it sounds odd, but I want to get married, start a life and a family all before I am thirty.
Maybe I'm just panicking?
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This is why I don't think it will work. Every relationship takes work and sacrifice. So in a few years maybe you go through a patch that requires you to give a little extra, and you have to work harder...are you going to start thinking "did I settle?" Or are you happy to sacrifice more for this person...
As a male you simply have the advantage of no biological clock. You have to trust that you will find the right one someday, and when you do you will be 100% sure that it is the right move.
Marriage and kids is hard work that has endless payoffs -- if you put in the work with the right person.