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Originally Posted by Bouw N Arrow
Who knows these days... I don't think so though. Just how she is, she is truly not a two timing type of person. But who knows.
You're right about her not knowing what she wants.. at 27 you should kind of know that, at least I do.
I'm not a student, I'm a full time employee at a healthcare company here in IT and have my feet on very stable ground.
I think her parents/family are paying her way which is why she is feeling the heat but her grades would've suffered regardless.
I've been as flexible as any guy could've been. She said that the reason she ended things before is because she hasn't felt this way about a guy before and she was scared about that which distracted her.
Who knows.. At this point I just hope things work out, if not? Maybe a trip to San Diego or something and move on. I kind of feel sorry for this girl that she's basically a slave to other people in her life when I just want to compliment her life.
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From what it seems, you guys are not on the same page then. You are a grounded guy in terms of your career. She is still in school. You seem to know what you want. She doesn't. You can make your own decisions. Hers are influenced by her parents.
I don't know if she is two timing ...
YOU want to compliment her life, but what SHE wants... we don't know..
and ... I absolutely hate when I hear people say "I broke up or backed out because I had "special feelings" for you, or that "I never felt that way before" ... so what do you do ... you dump the person, because you had something special with them. That makes a lot of sense. I don't want to generalize.. I guess in some situations people are terrified of the possibility of committment... but using that reason for a break up... BS.