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Originally Posted by Shin Pad
If her grades are going down, maybe you should give her some space to study. You two should just try and work out a schedule, to give her enough time to get her grades back up to where they should be. It would be a lot easier than breaking up.
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I've done that since we started seeing each other to the point where we wouldn't see each other during school days and just see each other friday night then all day Saturday's. I've given her all the time in the world. I think for her family they see my as just another guy.. they don't really realize the chemistry we have and how I support and care about her school.
Basically.. I'm entirely powerless in the situation and it really sucks
I've been on guard since the relationship started.. I'm not clingy at all, and you're right. I think i'll just have faith that she will be strong while keeping my guard up and hope for the best.
Thanks to all
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Originally Posted by JustAnotherGuy
Are there indicators that she is going to break it off or are you just being paranoid?
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She brought it up Saturday, saying that her family is very persuasive and that when she goes to California for the holidays that she doesn't know if she can be strong enough to go against them. I'll just be hopeful that she realizes that she'll be giving up something pretty special for no reason.. We're both 27, she's a big girl and that maybe it's time to think of herself and not just what mom and dad tell her.
We'll see..