[Jordan!]

Here's the deal.. my girlfriend and I have been dating for over 3 months. We are a perfect fit and we do love each other. But since she started seeing me her grades have done down (She's a grad student) and at Christmas she's going back to Cali (...cali) Here's the deal, my bro is married to an asian girl and my girlfriend is also asian. I know how career centric asian families are so I know for sure without a doubt that they will convince her to be single when she returns.. I'm hoping she's strong enough to know what we have is a very precious thing but I'm still so worried that she'll be persuaded otherwise and the sad part is, I do understand it.. her grades have suffered since we met but we both know our relationship isn't the cause of it. I also know she's under huge pressure because her family financially supports her through school.

I think we're screwed and I'd like to travel somewhere if things don't end up how I hope they work out. I'd go to Hawaii forgetting sarah marshall style but I just got back from Maui..

Anyone have any ideas? Vegas is close.. but eh... Anyone have similar relationship stories?

btw, she totally loves coolers..