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Originally Posted by transplant99
Im not going to treat her like a pariah...its something that happened and will have to be addressed at some point. Saying absolutely nothing could make her feel even worse actually....guilt can be a multiplier ina case like this i would think.
I have no intention of knocking on her door or anything, but we will cross paths at some point.
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I'd argue there's still an expectation of privacy on her part and to respect that. Maybe I'm misinterpreting the extent of the relationship between you two, but if I had been in her shoes, I wouldn't really want a neighbour bringing it up...especially when I'm sure this is ALL she'll be talking about when people speak to her the next few weeks, years, etc.
I'm not saying never talk about, but I just don't see the point of bringing it up.