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Originally Posted by 4X4
I don't believe that you've lived with someone and still think this. Before moving in together, people have their own place to go to when s*it get rough. Each individual is financially responsible for their own bills. Each individual is personally responsible for the upkeep of their own houses. Once they live together, sharing all those burdens is the entire learning curve to what most people hope to work toward, which is marriage.
I can't believe that any sane person thinks that they can figure out what it's like to live with someone before actually living with someone.
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I gotta side with 4x4 here, living with someone is very different even when you know them. I also tried living with an ex (read: I stayed over at her place 4x's a week, she stayed over 2x's a week) and it is very different. They are always there, and always there I mean ALWAYS there. She liked to have music on in the morning, I liked quiet. Etc etc... things are always different.