In complete honesty though, I know what your into Peter. I had a similar predicament where I found my girlfriend texting her ex and saying that she was wanting to 'spend some time together' and 'have a few drinks at his house, just the two of them'
There are a lot more sleazy people out there then most would think, and it hurts when it happens to you. All sorts of doubts come to mind and you start looking at yourself and what's wrong with you.
In the end, what happened was the best thing for me and I'm now back with my first real girlfriend and I could not be happier. Basically, if your the one putting in the effort and remaining faithful, you should have nothing but positive to look forward to as you know that you are the better person coming away from the experience.
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