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Originally Posted by peter12
This thread has been amazingly therapeutic. Since this seems to be providing so much entertainment to all, I met with her one last time to exchange whatever we had left at each other's places and then said so long for good. Pretty brutal, as you can imagine that basically when I saw her all of the good times we had just came flooding back. So I just shook her hand and away I went.
As many have said, introspection is the route I will be taking. I ain't down for good, but goddamit, still stinks.
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You've got more class then I would ever be able to muster.
I would have mailed her her stuff, and avoided the face to face.
There's no need for closure when she cheats, thats all the closure that you need.
I will make you a bet. In six month's you'll probably get a tearful phone call from her.
Advice number 2, remove her from your cellphone, your email lists, your face book if you have that crap, any easy access usually means the drunken midnight dial up which can then be not only construed as your lowest point, but moves you from victor with your head held high, to desparate loser clinging to something that you shouldn't be grabbing onto.
Remove any traces of her. Pictures, burn em, that ugly fuzzy sweater she gave you for christmas, burn it. anything that she bought for decoration, toss it.
Phaser all traces of her out of your life, she's not worth remembering.