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Originally Posted by CaptainCrunch
Nobody should be emotionally destroyed by the end of a relationship at the age of 25.
If you were my age and had invested 4 or 5 years, then be crushed. But at 25 be grateful and incredulous that you had a relationship that lasted that long and goes against all the rules of god and man.
Wait until you're older before you get all crushed and wrecked over a breakup. When you're young, your recovery period and getting on the next hours should be measured in terms of hours.
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I have to disagree. I think in a lot of ways the human heart is sort of like a piece of tape - when it sticks to something for the first time it sticks the tightest. Then when you pull the tape back off, it hurts the most. The second time it isn't as sticky but also is easier to pull back off, etc.
If this was Peter's first long-term relationship and it lasted 4-5 years, it'd be foolish to expect to move on in mere hours.
All that being said, if she is a cheater than you are too good for her. Think about this - the guy that she's with right now will end up going through the exact same thing...there's a good chance she'll cheat on him too eventually.
Spend time with your buddies. Go to the gym. And buy a new car.