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Originally posted by MRCboicgy@Oct 16 2005, 11:26 AM
another thing is his folks know i'm not the first guys he's dated, but they still blame me.
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Maybe they sort of knew that he was gay but they were able to pretend that it wasn't true, but then he came out and they can no longer pretend that he is straight. And since he came out while he was with you, they blame you for it. Does that make sense? That's just a theory anyways...
I can't help you out too much unfortunately. I haven't ever dealt with anything like this before. As far as I know, I don't know anyone that is gay so I couldn't even give you second hand info on the topic. But I will just say that he needs to decide whether your relationship is worth putting his relationship with his parents in jeopardy. Unfortunately, that's not something you can help him out with so your job is to just be there for him and not respond negatively to anything that his parents might throw at you. Don't give them anything that they can use against you to prove their believe that you are a bad person. Also, if you do respond negatively, it just makes it that much more difficult for him.
Other than that, I hope all goes well for you guys. Good luck.