[MRCboicgy]

Ok some details, hes on the cusp of turning 20, I'm just 21. The relationship with the family is good, he stayed strong as his parents went through marital troubles (but they are becoming more united now). He loves his parents, that's why this hurts so much because he respects their opinion and them not even sitting down for coffee to get to learn who I am. They are using the age difference as a reason too, 'well you shouldn't date someone older' (now if i was like 35, i could see that, but any age spread under 10 years is ok in my books provided it's not like 23/13--eww yuk). He's the one who takes care of his lil bro, he cleans the house, he's incredibly responsible and mature--as i'm the silly one at times, he's a good son, I noticed that right away when we were just hanging out (we were friends first and then over a period of time noticed a definite spark) that he had a solid upbringing another thing is his folks know i'm not the first guys he's dated, but they still blame me. Either way, the relationship is pretty solid and equal with us.