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Originally Posted by Eastern Girl
No, I think that's just you manipulating her, by exploiting her own insecurities either about herself or being alone. It's a petty grade school, "How to be a player" type move.
Right.
Consider me enlightened now, thanks.
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Hey don't get all angry at me for this... women do it to themselves hahaha... maybe you think this is grade school... but it works, and really... if it
is grade school, then who's to blame, the guy or the girl? The guy just knows she unwittingly wants it that way. Ultimately, it gets both of you to the goal of being together.
Honestly, women don't want some sob story door mat "man" begging them to take him back. They want the guy they can't have, who is confident and fun loving, who isnt afraid of women. They want him to give them
special attention that no other woman would get. They want to "break down" his walls...
I don't think it's manipulation. It's having a good understanding of what motivates the opposite sex, and then executing. What's wrong with that? Is there something diabolical about it? Is someone going to get hurt as a direct result? ... I dont think so...
Show of hands, how many men here get hit on ten fold as soon as women know they are taken or married?