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Originally Posted by Canada 02
while grand gestures are nice, it will be a temporary diversion from "tough times"
what makes a relationship work is the small everyday things that are done for each other just because. when you have that down pat, the grand gestures become special and more than a diversion
i'd suggest doing everyday things together. Cook a meal together, and I don't know, talk? No tv, no phone, no interruptions
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i was just about to say the same thing.
it's best to spread out the special things, so that it keeps everything more fresh. one big day is desperate and makes her happy once in a blue moon, but many smaller good days help spread out her happiness and keeps things level.