A few years ago I ran into an old friend at a party, I started chatting with her about life and her current situation etc.. She told me she had just broke up with her long term boyfriend but wasn't ready to start dating other guys yet because he had asked her to wait while he "just wanted to see if there was anything else out there for him".
I gave her a blank stare and asked if she was serious, she was stone cold sober and serious.
Maybe you should try that line, apparently it doesn't have a 100% failure rate.
In all seriousness though I think that the best route to take is the one you don't want to hear, be honest and up front. Take her out for diner at a nice restaurant, lay it on the table in a calm and orderly fashion and gauge her response. If you already tried this and it didn't work then there really isn't anything else you can do.. imo.
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