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Originally Posted by flames85
i don't agree, i believe her friends are staying neutral, as they don't truly understand the situation. i have bought her rings in the past, and i just gave her a promise ring with my intentions of marriage, unfortunately we both just finished college/university, so i can't exactly afford to buy her the ring she deserves.
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I think your in trouble with your expectations. I completely agree with Cow.
You bought her a promise ring and then I would expect at the very least dumped her after that at least once.
There's no way that her friends are neutral, they might tell you that, but I'm willing to bet dollars that her friends are fully appraised of the situation and have given her their advice, since they've gotten her side of the story, your not going to be classed as a nice guy, your going to be classed as an ahole.
I'm more then curious about the reasons why you broke up with her, it doesn't sound like infidellity, so I'm assuming it has to do with expectations or commitment and it doesn't sound like you were standup with either of those.
In the words of the drummer in the movie Rockstar "Let the chick go"