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Originally Posted by flames85
ok, here's the situation...
we're both in our mid-20's, been together for 7 amazing yrs. i broke up with her this summer for the second time. the first time was 4 yrs ago. she is afraid to get back together because she doesn't want to go through the hurt again. i messed up bad. and admitted it all to her. i am ready for the next step (marriage) with her. it took this mistake to realize what i had. i know i can't lose her, its that simple. (sorry for the sob story) just figure someone may have been through the same thing..
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Have you told her what you just told us? She probably wants honesty and to listen to your heart, instead of fluff. If you can say what's in your heart here, say it to her.
And perhaps the two of your should get some counselling, to get anything in the past, out of the past, so you can work on the future.