sounds like a very tough situation
my thoughts are that you cant force people to change their feelings, just as you or your bf, cant change the way 'you are'.
my only advice, and its probably not worth much, but to be polite, and try and let all of that roll off your backs, IE dont provoke any sort of problems.
the parents are the ones who have to deal with this, and it is obvious that they arent dealing with it well.
has the bf spoke up? what about other family members?
take care and good luck
rico
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