Lawyer up, get a settlement with 50/50 custody and guardianship then if she screws around go back to court, do this quickly as if you don't the court will tend to go with whatever the status quo is.
Get a good lawyer, and this will cost you, say absoloutly nothing to the kid about any of this, the mum may be a cow but that is the only mum she's got and it doesn't help to undermine that.
Even if you lose and go through a nightmare eventually your daughter will grow old enough to realise what has been going on, then she will spend more time with you regardless of the ex.
Cost me 12 grand to sort my marriage out, it never got sane until we had a court order.
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