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Originally Posted by VladtheImpaler
A lot of the stuff has been covered. Go to Calgary Legal Guidance or even Student Legal Assistance at the U of C, just so that you know exactly what you are responsible for, and what you can and cannot do. I think you are being manipulated/trapped, but that's easy for me to say without knowing her... My advice would be to get out and go to school as you planned - do not ruin the next 20 years of your life to "stay for the child". Get the paternity test, and, assuming if it's yours, do what you have/want to do. Do not change your life plan to suit the woman. It will mean some financial hardship, but at least you won't be miserable...
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I don't know if you're being trapped, but I want to further clarify what I said in my previous post. Everything you do is for the child. I don't want you to think that I was telling you to stay with the woman. Whichever direction you two make, just make sure you are on the best of terms as possible.