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Originally Posted by HOOT
You didn't see the picture of a fist and coat hanger on the first page? There has been a lot going on in this thread which has made me disgusted. And trust me that takes a lot! rico is exactly right about some of the comments.
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No, I missed that.
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First I would NOT move out and speak to a lawyer just to make sure you are doing the right thing first, moving out you may give up some rights. Once you know what to do from there I would talk to her and tell her you want to be in this childs life, you will pay what you can as you are going to school and want to spend time with the child, however you need a paternity test. Simple. If she threatens you about not seeing the child or getting a ton of child support you don't have to worry because the courts will allow you to see the child if you want and if they want child support and you are willing to pay for a paterity test I don't see why any judge wouldn't agree. Protect yourself and see a lawyer just to see your options. Best of luck with everything!
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He's not giving up any rights by moving out, and staying longer could actually jeopardize his future in many ways. The rest of your post I agree with.