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Originally Posted by Sylvanfan
Once the hormones settle down in a few more weeks, you may be able to have a more civil discussion on the topic. But if you think breaking up is something you have to do, than by all means ask for the paternity test but maybe wait 5 weeks.
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This brings up a good point, you could even wait until after 20 weeks or so. It's not a pleasant thing to think about, but the miscarriage rate before then is non-trivial... I don't recommend new parents to tell everyone else about their news until after that.