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Originally Posted by dissentowner
One of the biggest issues here is she wants me to not go to school now and work full time or go to school full time and work full time which would kill me doing this course. I don't want to give up school because I need a good career.
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Don't give up on school. That would be the worst mistake you could make.
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Originally Posted by dissentowner
I am leaning towards moving out but going to all the doctor appointments and trying to be supportive however I hinted at it the other day after an argument and she told me if I left she would rather me just disappear from her life.
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Well that's her choice. You can choose if you want to fight for access to the kid or not. It's a pretty expensive road to go down but if you really want to be a father then you'll have to take it.
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Originally Posted by Grunt
Man... I'd have to absolutely sure that she was cheating on me before I asked for a paternity test. What is this, Maury? C'mon.
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Why not? Why put yourself on the hook for 18+ years of child support for a child that isn't yours?