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Originally Posted by Drury18
Even in the non-homosexual way, your comment is absurd.
You can choose who you are attracted to. Millions of women would drop everything for a second with George Clooney or Sidney Crosby. I'd rather poke my eyes out with a hot stick while walking on rusty nails. Same thing with Megan Fox.
We all make decisions day to day who we are attracted to. You can see someone behind the counter at your coffee shop and feel attraction to them but turn around and see someone at a table and be hideously replused.
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I think you're missing the point. You can't choose who you are attracted to, you can choose among those you feel attraction to. Your own example is a perfect point. You feel attraction for the person behind the counter and repulsion for the person at the table, those feelings aren't voluntary. You can, of course, choose to approach the one you are attracted to, in order to try and start up a relationship, but you can't suddenly make yourself attracted to the one that 'repulses' you or at least does not attract you.