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Originally Posted by Drury18
Okay, so I guess being gay means you won't have any friends or family then. Alright then. Because you can't survive on one good family member or one good friend? You don't need a LARGE group of people to accept you and support you. You just need one.
No, some people don't have the balls to do what they need to in order to live their life. I accept this. I don't understand it, but I accept it. And feel sorry for them.
I'm not even sure where to begin on this one.
Experience it moreso then actually living this lifestyle or from the side of those who *think* they know what its about to be one? Clarify that one for me!
Okay, so to back up here. It's human to be a social animal and need family and friends, but only acceptable if your straight. If you're straight and lose your family and friends because of a heterosexual relationship that isn't accepted that's okay. You'll find a surrogate family and friends and your life will be just as fine. You don't really need that real family.
But if you're gay and lose your family and friends because of your gay choices, well that's much worse.
I'd like to know when that "non-trivial" portion of society is going to start protesting against the copious amounts of straight people that are disease ridden from sleeping with numerous sex partners they don't know the first names of and commit much worse atrocities on society. I have gay friends, and their partner count is much lower then all of my straight friends. Not all homosexuals sleep with everything that moves.
When I was 17. Before that it was actually only to men because that's all I felt attraction too. Probably should point out at this time I am a girl.
I have chosen to be bisexual because yes, while I was born and raised that the only relationships acceptable were those between men and women, I chose to disregard all of that when I was younger and explore relationships with women because I can't understand the hang up about why it matters whether its someone of the opposite sex or same sex when it comes to love. If you love someone, be with them.
And yes, I am attracted to both sexes equally. Although I'm sure someone here will make the comment I only do it for attention and everything else that goes along in the stigma of being bi.
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You cannot choose who you are attracted to, you can choose who you have sex with. Being homosexual means that you are attracted to the same gender more frequently than the opposite gender, no matter who you choose to have sex with. So it is not a choice. A man who is attracted to men but marries a woman, is not a heterosexual. He is a homosexual. Sexuality is about attraction, not about actions.