After 14 years of marriage when my ex decided she didn't want to be married anymore it took me about 3 years to get to some sense of normal in my life, not that it was awefull just strange, I can remeber waking up in the middle of the night with the new girlfriend thinking I had cheated on my wife. took me a few foggy minutes to remember I was seperated.
Get a good lawyer, spend as much time as you can spend with your kids as possible (at the expense of your girlfriends and if they don't understand show em the door), keep going it does get better, don't find the first single mother on the block to remarry and don't argue about stuff as it will cost you more in court than to buy it all new are about all I can suggest.
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