Whatever you do, in addition to getting the best lawyer possible, always act amicably towards your (soon to be) ex-wife. If you have any anger or frustration, find another way to vent it. Anything you say or the way you act towards her can impact a custody hearing and you want to appear as stable as possible.
Through all of this, you don't want to lose your kids. If you do move out of the house, make sure the environment you set up at your new home is stable and responsible. And no matter how angry you are at the wife, keep it to yourself. Also document anything crazy/irresponsible she does. I'm not saying you should prepare to go to war with her, because hopefully it doesn't come to that... But a lot of the time despite your best intentions, bitches can be crazy bro.
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