I'm sorry to hear that mate. I'd really suggest seeking counselling. There are many reasons to break up a marriage (abuse, etc) but "losing that loving feeling" is definitely one that can be worked through and to me not worth breaking up a family over. Many marriages on the brink have been saved through counselling. Sometimes marriages go into a downtime and is part of a cycle in marriage and life.
Maybe take some time away for awhile - just the both of you to recharge or rekindle. I really hope you guys can patch things up again. Something I once learnt that holds true for me. Love is a verb. Love is action. Love is something we choose to do once we are past the romance stage. It's something we must be proactive with.
Anyways that's my best advice friend. Take care.
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