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Originally Posted by Ozy_Flame
Sucks about the divorce dude, but let me tell you there are plenty of upsides to being single. For one thing you can look at and flirt with other women without getting in trouble. That's one thing I'm not going to stop being able to do (hitting on women is like crack for me), so any girlfriend I have is going to have to accept that I like doing it!
And another thing, you'll find you have some real quality me time. Find hobbies, do sports, follow up on the things you've always wanted to but couldn't because marriage has tied you down.
And remember - you're not single; you're a bachelor. Single guys are lonely and desperate. Bachelors are the confident and sauve type women go for.
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All great advice, but the fact that he has kids will likely make it a sadder, tougher transition. Where as, you're making it sound like it's a blessing and a great opportunity, which would likely be more true for someone who was married without kids and got divorced.
Although, who am I to say? Everyone's different.