I'm young and single so I have no real advice to give. Sorry to hear though, hope it all works for the best.
One thing that I saw on The Sopranos though was Tony (the main character) was given the advice to call every divorce attorney in town. I don't know how true any of this is, but if you do that then your wife won't be able to use any of those attorney's because they would have a conflict of interest.
So if that is true, your wife would miss out on the top attorneys in town.
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