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Sorry to hear about that man. Having been through it I'm not gonna lie and say that it isn't a a tough go, especially if it's a bomb that got dropped on you out of no where and didn't see it coming. Things do get better though. My advice to you is don't be afraid to rely on friends and family for support, you can't do it on your own no matter how much you think you can or want to.

Surround yourself with positive experiences and keep active, nothing good comes out of locking yourself away from the world. I'm not sure of your age but i'm 30 and fell into a pit that took a while to recouperate from because of the lifestyle I chose to live with my new found freedom.

If this is the path she has chosen stick to your guns and get a good lawyer. The legal system is tilted in her favour already so lock things up as quick as possible because speaking from experience the longer the procedure drug on the more she tried to squeeze from me.

If you need to vent or have any other questions you can always PM me. Remember you did nothing wrong and everything happens for a reason.

Head up pal